How to Tell If He’s Just Not That Into You

College is renowned for its hookup culture; this same culture makes it hard for girls to find a serious relationship. Here are some signs that the guy you are seeing just isn’t in it for the same thing as you:

 

5. He doesn’t tell his friends about you
New relationships are exciting. If he isn’t telling his friends all about you, or even acknowledging that you are together, then he’s not serious about you. Another big sign he isn’t into you is that he never wants to meet your friends or family and vice versa. You are not a little secret that should be kept away, if he really was serious about you, he would introduce you to the important people in his life.

4. He only wants to hang out at night
You get a text message late at night, it’s him asking if he can come over or if you guys can go out, which usually ends in hooking up. But, whenever you ask to go out anywhere during the day, he always seems to find an excuse to not come. This is a major sign that you are a “booty call”. He doesn’t take you seriously as a person and only sees you as a physical object.

3. Wandering eyes

Every time you go out, he is constantly breaking eye contact with you. Why? Because, some girl just walked by and he just HAD to turn around and check her out. It isn’t just one instance, it’s multiple times throughout your time together you catch him eyeing up other girls. If he’s constantly looking for the next best thing, he isn’t thinking about a future with you.

2. No response
Whenever he calls, you usually pick up the phone or respond back within a decent amount of time. But, you can never seem to reach him. If it always takes him more than a day to call you back or answer a text message, he isn’t interested in what you have to say. He only responds because he feels like he’s obligated to and only does it when it’s convenient for him. What would happen if you had an emergency? Would he be there to answer the phone if you needed him?

1. He never gives you straight answers
You see things have been progressing, or not, for a while now. Whenever you want to talk about your relationship and your future together, he always blows you off. This is a huge warning sign. Guys aren’t as complicated as we perceive them to be, if they want something, they’ll tell you. If he can’t give you any clue about the terms of your relationship or doesn’t even put in the effort, he’s not the one for you.

As females, we try so hard to decipher men and waste so much time and energy into finding excuses as to why someone is not committing. Sometimes, the truth is just as simple as he is not interested in you as a serious partner and there is nothing you can do to change that. The only thing you can do is to know you deserve better and give your efforts to someone who is willing to be committed to you.

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